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Reposted from TP.bz
Poster: Avalust
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I was given a link for
I think this site was posted here before, well its a site about bashing pua's , I just got a link because they were bashing someone from this site.
This was my first time there just to tell you how lame these guys are they spent all there time trying to get Brad P pictures from his Myspace, Brad P deletes it an changes his Myspace name I believe.
They do this with alot of other puas.
My first thought about these guys were
1. They suck socially
2. Learn't PU and still suck socially
3.Instead of continuing to push themselves they form/join a site to bash what they learn't and how much certain "type" of ppl suck.
4.Racist - saw alot of racist comments there
Why am I saying this?
I was just talking to a friend who is a member here and has like 1 post and has been here for 3 years, told him he needs to participate more lol, he told me his point here is to get better in real life not talk about it on forums, so point taken.
My thoughts about forums now is get what you need and go.
Alot of ppl read how this works and that does not, they go after things with 30% committment and get 30% results, PU really helped me as with many other things here, I don't know what guys study here but to me PU was a art form, that talked to me about choice.
When people define themselves by it where it becomes the mask of the moment, this is when they feel they are being fake. Why should they not be? Its a mask but when you look at it as a way to explore yourself, see whats possible, learning conversation not just to seduce but to bring out the best in people.
I learnt this from my music teacher around 4 years ago, he told me when I play music play not have the thoughts to be flashy, "interesting" but to find a unique way to compose that when people hear me play, it will bring back memories and emotions that was lost and where there is no memories the music will bring self discovery. Yeah it sounds kinda corny but it really helped me interms of my composing.
His best words to me were "Music perfection is when you write words that don't need music to be understood and when you write music it to does not need words to be understood, then you combine the two"
To me interacting with people is the same journey, well thats my concept, it keeps learning interesting to me.
Don't take the bullshit alot of stuff on here has helped alot of people, become a social scientist, test, push things and stay away from things that will demotivate you esp. emotional rants from people who go after things with 30% committment and get 30% results .
By the way this Avatar was not created by me but one my friends a while back because I had a lame internet download and 30gb computer , we use to download stuff here and was fucking amazed by the things we were learning, he died a few months later, he use to tell me how he felt like he wasted his life and only if he found this stuff earlier, to me I carry the fucking torch now and I gladly do so.
Dedicate your life to getting good.
At the moment am a Big fan of
Vin Dicarlo
Entropy
TheModern man
And anything simple
The Trance of Scarcity ~ Victoria Castle
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LOL what an idiot...he doesnt even realize that he is chasing a ghost- I hate people like this
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Another "self-improvement" retard.
Actually I think the point where I personally improved the most in my life was when I stopped obsessing over self improvement.
The whole mindset of improving yourelf is counterproductive because deep down it means that you still believe you SUCK.
This guy takes this to the extreme, where he even takes on the identity of "I am a self-improving person", I bet he is a virgin.
The only self help book I'd recommend is "Psycho Cybernetics" where there is a lot about self image etc. Basically by thinking you need to improve you fuck up your whole self image. It is like the community: You can't really get good with girls by trying to get good with girls.
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Well said - having hung around the fringes of the self-improvement market (I'm in sales...there's a lot of this shit in sales!), you're on the mark.
Sometimes you need to accept that you're average and no matter how much you try and improve, you're only ever gonna get a little bit better. If memory serves, "Psycho-Cybernetics" says this.
But, there's nothing wrong with being average! You'll live longer and enjoy life more when you're not perpetually up your butt about not being "best of the best"
Ben
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many people try to improve themselves, but they do so by taking simple actions every day
not by talking about it all the time and discussing it in internet forums and analyzing it all the time and talking down on people that don't
this behavior is typical only to kj's who just talk but don't actually do anything, or to extremely insecure people, or just to general losers.
the barking dog doesn't bite, or is so unsure of his bite that he needs to bark a lot just to make sure.
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Yeah, I am really disciplined, hit the gym every day, check my diet and try to push myself in many areas but I still don't think of myself as someone who is trying to improve himself and who is better than those who aren't. I just live my life how I want to live it and let people do whatever they want with theirs.
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How DELUSIONAL can one possibly be?!
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i bet you never get laid huh? Self help is the shit....
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im not in the pua community anymore. I just want to be my best
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